16 Things I Learned in 2016………..

1. Reaping and sowing is real. What you put out, will come back. The world calls it karma, God says He will not be  mocked. It’s in there, Galatians 6:7. No one gets away with doing wrong, but be mindful that it’s equally as important to sow good seed in good soil.
2. Be yourself. Always. God graced this Earth with you for a purpose, walk in it. Psalms 139:14
3. No one is going to live your life for you, make the decisions you need to make, for the life you wish to live.
4. Don’t wait to take advantage of opportunities. If it is placed before you, pray about it, do your part, and let God work.
5. Don’t take anything or anyone for granted. God gives us special people that truly are irreplaceable. Don’t miss water that can hydrate you for life for off brand soda that will eventually dehydrate you, and ultimately never quench your thirst. If assistance was needed to get you to a certain point or to accomplish a certain thing in your life, understand that if it took that to get it, it will take that same help or support to maintain it. It’s never okay to take anything for granted. Don’t. *Tiller voice*
6. Listen to your body. God wants us to be in tune with Him, and also with our temples. If you don’t take care of you, you cannot fulfill God’s will for your life. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
7. Listen to wisdom. If someone takes the time to share something they know is good for you, listen. It may not be what you want to hear, but God places people in our lives to give us jewels of wisdom at times that He has specifically appointed.
8. Don’t be superficial and hollow. Character and integrity are far more valuable in life than anything surface level. Fronting only goes so far.
9. Other people’s opinions do not matter. God’s does. People will change. God is constant.
10. Commit to what you say you want. Ain’t no half stepping in the Kingdom and there shouldn’t be in any goals you say you have set for yourself.
11. If you’re hurting, be real about your pain. You cannot begin the healing process if you’re not honest with yourself. No one will know how to help you, if you aren’t real about where you are.
12. Get some culture. Ignorance is not cute. Having class is rare nowadays, but valued by the right people.
13. Don’t compare or compete. It doesn’t make sense. Stay in your lane. Know your role.
14. Always express gratitude and regrets in words and ACTIONS. Be grateful. Be able to admit your wrongs, apologize, and change your ways.
15. Don’t stress over things you can’t change. Let God be God. What is meant to be, will be.
16. Have JOY! Never lose sight of  the fact that regardless of any circumstance there is always something to give God praise for. Don’t let anything steal your joy!

Happy 2017 y’all!


  1. Dione Y. Williams

    Yasssss! Speak the truth, sis!

    1. Jenn

      Love you Dee!!! Thank you for your support always!!!! ❤️

  2. Jstjah

    Thank you for thr many reminders. Certainly we all forget to do the little things or the grits of everyday living. I appreciate you for being that guardian angel and more importantly for sharing a piece of your world with us……..
    Great Job….!!!!

    1. Jenn

      Thank you!!!!!!! You know that means the world coming from you!!!! You’re multitalented and I’m truly honored you took the time to read my first post!!

  3. Jennifer

    Thank you to everyone that has read my first post!

  4. Ashley

    Great blog!! Really looking for God to show out with his blessings in 2017!! Hoping to restore joy and happiness back into my life!!

    1. Jenn

      Ashley, you will! Just remember to keep God first, and to take time for you!!!!!!! Love you!

  5. Cedric Washington

    Dopeness… ?

    1. Jenn

      Ced, thank you!!!!!! I’m trying to be as dope as you!!

  6. Bol

    Excellent read to kickoff the new year

  7. James

    Thanks for sharing. I like how you incorprated bible verses into the list. Another great example of how God’s word is vital and intertwined in our everyday lives.

  8. Jasmine T

    Thank you for sharing!! This post to your morning texts apply to my personal journey are spot on. I can always count you to drop nuggets of wisdom.

  9. Jasmine T

    Thank you for sharing!! This post and your morning texts are spot on. I can always count you to drop nuggets of wisdom.

    1. Jennifer

      Thank you Jasmine!!!!! You are an inspiration and I appreciate your support!

  10. King

    Strong message from a strong woman. Amen!

    1. Jennifer

      Thank you for your support and for your encouragement! To God be the glory!

  11. Princess Danielle

    Loved this, lady!! What better way to begin a new year than with 16 nuggets of wisdom. Thank you.

    1. Jennifer

      Thank you for your support Princess! 2017 is gonna be a great one!

  12. Tron

    BLOB! Definitely going to print this one to add to my reading material! Bless up!

    1. Jennifer

      Thank you Tron!!!! I appreciate your support and hope you will continue to read future posts!

  13. Troy Spry

    Great article Jennifer! All very powerful and true points that get lost in the shuffle when we get busy and start just going through the motions. We should all step back and reflect on things like this!

    1. Jennifer

      Thank you Troy! I appreciate your support always!!!

  14. Andrea

    I love this!! Especially Point #3! Live your life. Cheers to you in the New Year!

    1. Jennifer

      Thank you so much Andrea!!!!! Cheers to you as well, let’s make 2017 phenomenal!

  15. Rick

    I’m soooo proud of you! Keep it up!

  16. Dawun, YBP

    Numbers 2, 3, and 9 hit home for me. (2) Be yourself. Always. (3) No one is going to live your life for you, make the decisions you need to make, for the life you wish to live. (9) Other people’s opinions do not matter. — As a young, black professional male in a white female dominated career field (human resources) I feel constantly judged for being myself, constantly judged by other people’s opinions of me, and yet every time I act on the 3rd principle I find success! One thing I learned in 2016 is don’t compromise your principles. Your good name is worth more than money, and loving favor rather than adornments (proverbs 22:1). When you don’t compromise, you can end up with all 4!

    1. Jenn K.

      Love this Dawun! Thank you so much for reading!

  17. Nikki Belton

    This was a really good read Jen. I gotta share this for the world to see. Good job sis!

    1. Jenn K.

      Thank you so much Nikki! I appreciate your support sis!

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